Growing up in a family that didn’t express love unconditionally set me up for a life of striving to prove myself while believing I wasn’t worthy of love.
I used to believe that I had to be perfect in order to receive – a trait that also triggers my Virgo nature and drives me to insanity behaviour.
What I learned is that when I relax and KNOW I am worthy of love without having to earn it, I move into a place of peace, comfort and self-acceptance. My intensity diminishes and I’m a much easier person to be around.
I stop seeking out individuals who require me to become a certain type of person and can enjoy relationships that are easy and supportive.
How can you practice unconditional love towards yourself and others? How has it changed your life?